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Why Porn Star Nina Hartley Claims Porn Is About Healing

There is an enormous divide in opinions about porn in our society. Some are completely against it. Some say it is perfectly healthy and natural — that it can be a learning experience, that it can be an exciting addition to sex, and that it can help to relieve stress when no available lovers […]

By |April 3rd, 2017|blog|0 Comments

Here Are The Real Reasons We Sexually Fantasize

Fantasizing gives us a safe, personal sexual space to explore our own desire.

As intimately connected as we are with a partner, we still have individual desires that belong to us personally. This doesn’t mean that there’s anything wrong with your relationship. However, excluding your partner from your fantasies or not explaining why you’d like […]

By |March 14th, 2017|blog|0 Comments

Dominatrixes and Porn Sites Report a Huge BDSM Uptick Since Trump Became President

Across the country, it seems more people want to get spanked.

Following November’s election, wide swaths of the country were overtaken with fear, deeply worried that President Donald Trump would make good on his controversial campaign promises. Of course, there’s no better way to shake yourself out of a political panic attack than a lively BDSM session. According to dominatrixes and others in the sex-work industry, […]

By |March 6th, 2017|blog|0 Comments

Donald and the Dominatrix: How the White House Inspired a BDSM Movement

If critics of President Trump have noticed an uptick in female devaluation, it’s not reflected in the S&M scene

Soon after Donald Trump joined the presidential race, a professional dominatrix named Tara Indiana announced her plans to follow suit. “If a carnival barker like Donald Trump can run for president, why not a dominatrix?” she […]

By |March 6th, 2017|blog|0 Comments

How To Turn Your Bedroom Into The ‘Red Room’

Americans are probably more educated, informed, and enthusiastic about sex today than we’ve ever been, and yet we can still sometimes feel closed or uncomfortable expressing our sexuality in certain ways. BDSM — a world I stumbled into, learned to understand, and have grown to love — is definitely one of those uncomfortable areas.

Before […]

By |February 13th, 2017|blog|0 Comments

The Real Pain And Empowerment Behind Sex Reassignment Surgery

What risks and sacrifices are you willing to make in order to nurture your true nature? I once met an inspiring woman who, after spending 50 years living her life unhappy and unfulfilled as a man, found the courage within to live the rest of her life with authenticity and happiness.

“I knew from the […]

By |February 5th, 2017|blog|0 Comments

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