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Take It From An Actual Domme: ‘Fifty Shades’ Is Pathetic

At first glance, BDSM (bondage, discipline, sadism, and masochism) may seem like an abusive practice carried out only between heartless, psychologically disturbed sadists and victims with low self-worth. Appearances, however, are often misleading, and with BDSM, this misunderstanding is especially profound, as is obvious in the new movie release, “Fifty Shades Darker,” an erotic […]

By |February 25th, 2017|Uncategorized|4 Comments

How To Turn Your Bedroom Into The ‘Red Room’

Americans are probably more educated, informed, and enthusiastic about sex today than we’ve ever been, and yet we can still sometimes feel closed or uncomfortable expressing our sexuality in certain ways. BDSM — a world I stumbled into, learned to understand, and have grown to love — is definitely one of those uncomfortable areas.

Before […]

By |February 13th, 2017|blog|0 Comments

The Real Pain And Empowerment Behind Sex Reassignment Surgery

What risks and sacrifices are you willing to make in order to nurture your true nature? I once met an inspiring woman who, after spending 50 years living her life unhappy and unfulfilled as a man, found the courage within to live the rest of her life with authenticity and happiness.

“I knew from the […]

By |February 5th, 2017|blog|0 Comments

At 55-Years-Old I Convinced A BDSM Dungeon To Grant Me An In-person-Interview, And I Got The Job

Five years ago, my life felt like a disaster. I was a holistic practitioner, but I lost my award-winning wellness practice in the wake of the Great Recession. I was 55, with no prospects, no financial savings, no family members who would help, and friends who seemed to vanish into thin air. I found […]

By |January 30th, 2017|blog|0 Comments

3 Medical Theories On Why Feet Are So Irresistibly Sexy

Indulging in a foot fetish can be healthy, satisfying, and fun.
Indulging in a foot fetish can be healthy, satisfying, and fun.
I can’t think of anything more enjoyable after a long day than relaxing on the sofa while my partner gives me a foot massage. Honestly, I can’t remember any of my exes not […]

By |January 23rd, 2017|blog|0 Comments

How Sleeping Can Unlock Inner Creativity

Slowing down our brain’s vibration allows us to access joy.

 Like everything in the world, our brains vibrate at different levels. Each frequency (totaling five) is measured in per-second increments, and each cycle has its own specific level of brain activity and distinctive state of consciousness.
Neuroscientific studies have discovered that the Alpha wave frequency is the […]

By |January 23rd, 2017|blog|0 Comments

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