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Why Porn Star Nina Hartley Claims Porn Is About Healing

There is an enormous divide in opinions about porn in our society. Some are completely against it. Some say it is perfectly healthy and natural — that it can be a learning experience, that it can be an exciting addition to sex, and that it can help to relieve stress when no available lovers […]

By |April 3rd, 2017|blog|0 Comments

Here Are The Real Reasons We Sexually Fantasize

Fantasizing gives us a safe, personal sexual space to explore our own desire.

As intimately connected as we are with a partner, we still have individual desires that belong to us personally. This doesn’t mean that there’s anything wrong with your relationship. However, excluding your partner from your fantasies or not explaining why you’d like […]

By |March 14th, 2017|blog|0 Comments

Dominatrixes and Porn Sites Report a Huge BDSM Uptick Since Trump Became President

Across the country, it seems more people want to get spanked.

Following November’s election, wide swaths of the country were overtaken with fear, deeply worried that President Donald Trump would make good on his controversial campaign promises. Of course, there’s no better way to shake yourself out of a political panic attack than a lively BDSM session. According to dominatrixes and others in the sex-work industry, […]

By |March 6th, 2017|blog|0 Comments

Donald and the Dominatrix: How the White House Inspired a BDSM Movement

If critics of President Trump have noticed an uptick in female devaluation, it’s not reflected in the S&M scene

Soon after Donald Trump joined the presidential race, a professional dominatrix named Tara Indiana announced her plans to follow suit. “If a carnival barker like Donald Trump can run for president, why not a dominatrix?” she […]

By |March 6th, 2017|blog|0 Comments

Take It From An Actual Domme: ‘Fifty Shades’ Is Pathetic

At first glance, BDSM (bondage, discipline, sadism, and masochism) may seem like an abusive practice carried out only between heartless, psychologically disturbed sadists and victims with low self-worth. Appearances, however, are often misleading, and with BDSM, this misunderstanding is especially profound, as is obvious in the new movie release, “Fifty Shades Darker,” an erotic […]

By |February 25th, 2017|Uncategorized|4 Comments

How To Turn Your Bedroom Into The ‘Red Room’

Americans are probably more educated, informed, and enthusiastic about sex today than we’ve ever been, and yet we can still sometimes feel closed or uncomfortable expressing our sexuality in certain ways. BDSM — a world I stumbled into, learned to understand, and have grown to love — is definitely one of those uncomfortable areas.

Before […]

By |February 13th, 2017|blog|0 Comments

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